Summary

The poem "Don't Rush Me, Please" speaks to a way of being with children: unhurried, present, and open to where their wonder takes us. Like the snail, the children move slowly, exploring with care and intention.

A couple of weeks ago, I discovered a worm wriggling through toddler yard, who had made his way onto my toe. I called to the children, “There is a worm on my toe! Does anyone want to see?” Everyone gathered, and we all got the opportunity to take a closer look at Mister Wormy. It was a small moment that sparked big curiosity; we paused, observed, and followed their lead. The toddlers were clearly excited, but did a great job staying composed as they took turns holding the worm. They moved carefully and gently, showing wonder and curiosity without getting too loud or rushed.

The following poem, “Don’t Rush Me, Please,” mirrors what we witness daily in our environment: the power of patience, presence, and child-led discovery. Just like the worm, toddlers thrive when they’re given time to explore, to wonder, and to make sense of their world without the pressure of adult-driven timelines.

This approach reflects the heart of emergent curriculum and holistic learning. Rather than imposing a rigid structure, we respond to the children’s interests and rhythms. Each photograph we share tells a story of autonomy, connection, and engagement. They are windows into a learning journey that unfolds naturally, guided by the voice of your children, and supported by intentional observation.

         

“Don’t Rush Me, Please”

I am a snail—Don’t rush me, please.
I’m heading for those cherry trees.
I have no place I have to be,
No pressing thing I have to see.
I like this speed; I like being slow;
It gives me time to get to know all the flowers that I pass,
every blade of every grass.
I am a snail; this is my way.
Don’t rush me, please. We’ve got all day.

By Barbara Vance

Excerpt from the poetry collection “Suzie Bitner Was Afraid of the Drain”

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